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John Louis
24 November 1950
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Just a middle aged dominant unfortunately in the "Secret Life" mode.
My paradigms tend to be older than many of the people I run into in the scene (but thankfully, not all). Thinking, always being more prized than brute strength, the heros of my youth are characters like Sargent Bilko (who's visage now looks down on me from the living room wall) and Brett Maverick, both of who happen to be gamblers, but the attraction is they always out think their opponents. I think The Sting is a great work of movie art.
This is my adult/erotic journal. Run now if you don't want to hear about what I think about, consider doing, and manage to do.

I also post on politics, religion, photography, humor and the occasional goat article.
Recently I've taken photography classes taught by Barbara Nitke ( http://www.barbaranitke.com ) and Scott Church, and talked myself into a digital camera. I've been known to photograph friends and I'm typically looking for the poses and stances that show them off in the way they look best.

I've also done my first Midori workshop and have upgraded my rope. Oh, and teasing free_of_whip is always rewarding, as teasing easy_living is always dangerous.

I make both public and friends only posts. If you're not 18 or older please understand why I'm not adding you to my "friends" list. I'm also a little worried when someone has a new account (less than a month old) who wants to be added. Build a little history, then ask.

Interesting links: extra yahoo emoticons http://messenger.yahoo.com/hiddenemoticons.php

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